SQL 根据表A的数据修改表B，当一条表B的数据匹配到多条表A的数据时选其中一条修改

通过id和no组合分组，ROW_NUMBER()over (partition by id+','+no ) rn先对A表进行行编号，条件多加一个 rn=1

update B
set _flg = 'update',
b_string1 = t4.a_string1,
b_string2 = t4.a_string2,
b_string3 = t4.a_string3,
b_string4 = t4.a_string4,
b_string5 = t4.a_string5,
update_by = current_user,
update_date = getdate()
from B t3
inner join (select a.*,ROW_NUMBER()over (partition by id+','+no ) rn from a)  t4 
on t3.id = t4.id and t3.no = t4.no
where exists
(
    select 1 from A t5 where t5.id + ',' +t5.no = t3.id + ',' + t3.no
    and (
            t3.b_string1 <> t5.a_string1
            or t3.b_string2 <> t5.a_string2
            or t3.b_string3 <> t5.a_string3
            or t3.b_string4 <> t5.a_string4
            or t3.b_string5 <> t5.a_string5
        )
) and t4.rn=1

没有建表语句和数据，SQL没有调测，只是这么一个意思。